Please Note (June 18, 2010): This version of the Slashy Moments List is no longer being updated. The list has been organized into chronological order by universe and reposted. That is the version that is being updated. You can find it here: http://community.livejournal.com/cap_ironman/539696.html

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I've been keeping the slashiest moments list updated in the previous post, but the comments have collapsed now, which makes it damn hard to keep track of new material, so I'm reposting the updated list. Please comment here to add moments!

Also, I suspect we could keep this going awhile, so I'm going to arbitrarily say that I'll take the list as it exists Wednesday night (March 26th, PST) and will make the poll from that. :-)

The Slashy Moments List
1. The "hug and fly". [Young Avengers #1] [Scan]
2. The "It wasn't worth it" speech. [The Confession] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
3. The mouth-to-mouth in Red Zone. [Avengers v3 #65-70] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
4. Post-Armor Wars making up, featuring the Incredibly Gay Pink Shirt. [Iron Man v1 #238] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
5. Tony dreams of Steve. [Iron Man v4 #21] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
6. The "find yourself a new life" conversation. [Captain America v1 #228] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
7. Steve is grumpy until he makes up with Tony (after some Avengers use lethal force). [Captain America v1 #401] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4]
8. Tony saves Steve on the astral plane. [Captain America v1 #437] [Scan]
9. Tony informs a villain of Steve's awesomeness. [New Invaders mini? Avengers v3?] [Scan]
10. The "he's taking the full force of my repulsor blasts!" panel. [Avengers v1 #5] [Scan]
11. The glance exchanged at the end of What If? Civil War. [What If? Civil War] [Scan]
12. All of the intervention issue. [Iron Man v1 #172] [Cover Scan Scan 1 Scan 2]
13. The bagel scene, and talking about putting the team back together. [New Avengers #3] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
14. Steve believes Tony hasn't been drinking in Avengers Disassembled. [Avengers #501] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
15. Married-like understanding of intentions in the Savage Land. [New Avengers #5] [Scan]
16. Cap is upset that his people have come to save him when Tony asks to meet. [Iron Man v4 #14] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4]
17. Tony at Cap's funeral. [Fallen Son #5; Captain America v5 #26] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
18. When they put Steve back into the ice. [Fallen Son #5] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4]
19. The look they exchange in Armor Wars. [Iron Man v1 #228] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
20. The entire Cap/Iron Man annual. [Captain America/Iron Man Annual] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4]
21. Tony electrocutes himself to save Steve. [Iron Man v4 #12] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
22. Cap giving Tony support in IM 303. [Iron Man #303] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4 Scan 5 Scan 6 Scan 7]
23. Tony and Steve being nostalgic. [Iron Man v3 #73] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
24. Steve rides Tony like a pony. [Avengers #215] [Scan]
25. Tony closets himself in his office with fake!Cap. [Tales of Suspense #58] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4]
26. Tony recalls his own problems when talking to a drunk Carol. [Iron Man v3 #23] [Scan]
27. Steve yells at Tony and Thor while touching Tony a lot. [Avengers v3 #63] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
28. Steve apologizes on Tony's behalf. [New Avengers Annual #1] [Scan]
29. Tony is supportive when Cap is paralysed. [Iron Man v1 #314] [Scan]
30. Steve has a personal override code for Tony's armor. [New Avengers #18] [Scan]
31. Steve, acting as Tony's squire, loans him his shield to help him defeat Morgan Le Fay. [Marvel Adventures: Avengers #10] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
32. Steve and Tony choose to face the end of the world together. [What If? Annihilation] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4]
33. Tony can't go with Cap to find Bucky, but Steve understands. [Captain America v5 #13] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
34. In a letter delivered after his death, Steve asks Tony to take care of America and save Bucky. [Captain America v5 #28, 30] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
35. All of Iron Man/Captain America: Casualties of War. [Casualties of War] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4 Scan 5 Scan 6 Scan 7 Scan 8]
36. Tony admires Steve's eyes. [Tales of Suspense 1994] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
37. During Armor Wars, Steve waits for Tony, and Tony ditches a woman to talk. [Captain America v1 #341] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
38. Steve is upset when Tony is dating Jan. [Avengers v1 #224] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
39. Steve's first day at Avengers Mansion and a welcome home from Tony. [Avengers: Earth's Mightiest Heroes #2] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
40. Tony leaves the team and hands over leadership to Cap for the first time. [Avengers: Earth's Mightiest Heroes #8] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
41. Iron Man doesn't think much of Cap at first, but this scene still manages to be slashy. [Captain America: Sentinel of Liberty #5] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4 Scan 5]
42. The Avengers hold a press conference to announce the new team. Total married moment. [Avengers v3 #4] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
43. Steve and Tony bicker over Steve being a hardcase. Or being maternal. [Avengers v3 #82] [Scan]
44. Tony can stop the ultimate doom at the cost of his own life. Steve doesn't want him to do it, and holds Tony in his arms afterward. [Avengers v1 #395] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
45. Tony draws strength from thoughts of Steve when his abusive boyfriend the living armor kidnaps him. [Iron Man v3 #30] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
46. Steve and Tony arrange a date. Really. [Avengers v1 #221] [Scan]
47. Steve announces that the heroes need inspiration that only Iron Man could give them and puts on red, white, and blue armor. [What If? Civil War] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
48. After returning from the dead, Tony feels guilty and confused, but Steve is just glad he's back. [Avengers Annual 2001] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
49. When machine-bugs attack, Tony stops his heart to defeat them, and Steve revives him. [Captain America v4 #27] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
50. You have to see this one to believe it. Worse (better?) than #24. Really. [Captain America: Sentinel of Liberty #6] [Scan]
51. During the Civil War, Steve apologizes, though not directly to Tony. [Frontline #11] [Scan]
52. During the Civil War, Tony grieves. [Frontline #11] [Scan]
53. Cap says goodbye when Iron Man leaves the team for the first time. [Marvel Heroes and Legends 1997] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3
54. Cap becomes furious when he thinks the Guardsman has injured Iron Man. [Iron Man v1 #44] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
***(added after the poll ran)***
55. In the middle of the Civil War, Marc Spector tells Steve that he and Tony need to "get a room". [Moon Knight ??issue??] [Scan]
56. In the middle of the Civil War, Tony asks Marc Spector how Steve looks. [Moon Knight ??issue??] [Scan]
57. Steve knows all of Tony's tricks. [New Avengers Annual #1] [Scan]
58. Steve and Tony chat, play basketball, go after spam callers, and fight incompetent villains. It's not a date. Really. [Marvel Adventures: Avengers #27] [Page of Scans]
59. Steve calls Tony in to help on a mission...in "Wolverine and Iron Fist". Who knows why either of the appear in that mini? [Wolverine and Iron Fist] [Scan]
60. "There's nothing Captain America can't handle. Period." [Wolverine and Iron Fist] [Scan]
61. Steve freaks out over Iron Man being injured. [Wolverine and Iron Fist] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
62. According to Spider-Man and Luke Cage, Steve and Tony are wrestling for the remote control. Because Tony Stark only has one TV...really. [White Tiger #4] [Scan]
63. Tony throws himself between Steve and danger. Again. [Marvel Adventures: Avengers #8] [Scan]
64. Gratuitous touching! Steve has to be damn strong to use one hand to help Iron Man to his feet when he's in armor. [Marvel Adventures: Avengers #8] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
65. Steve and Tony go on their second date hang out in the park. With hand holding. [Marvel Adventures: Avengers #30] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
66. Tony saves Steve from drowning and worries over him after. [Ultimatum #1, #2] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3 Scan 4]
67. The Monitor Room scene (Tony's reaction to past!Steve). [Avengers/Invaders #1] [Scan]
68. Past!Steve asks Tony what he sacrificed (who he killed) to get where he is...and believes his explanation. [Avengers/Invaders #5] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
69. Tony uses the words "Captain America" as his password to unlock his armor storage. [Iron Man v3 #44] [Scan]
70. Spider-Man is worried Iron Man needs a hand with a dinosaur. Cap knows he's got it. [New Avengers #5] [Scan]
71. The marriage of AU!Steve and "Natasha Stark" (AU!Tony) prevents the Civil War. In canon. Really. [Fantastic Four: Dark Reign #2] [Scan]
72. Steve defends Tony from Tiberius Stone's slander. [Iron Man v3 #39] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
73. Tony dresses up as Cap for a costume party. [Iron Man v3 #33] [Scan]
74. Tony pays two million dollars for Cap's original Avengers ID card. [Captain America #600] [Scan 1 Scan 2 Scan 3]
75. Past!Steve expresses sympathy for Tony's emotional struggle during the Civil War. [Avengers/Invaders #10] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
76. Cap begs Iron Man not to leave the Avengers. (Iron Man is Rhodey at this point, hence the brown hands, but Steve doesn't know that.) [Avengers v1 #231] [Scan]
77. Cap is worried about Tony in the aftermath of Hank's breakdown. [Avengers v1 #228] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
78. Tony tries to reassure Cap when Cap starts feeling that knowing him has marked everyone he cares about for "dark destiny". [Captain America v1 #279] [Scan 1]
79. Steve and Tony make up after an argument about Iron Man's leadership abilities. [Avengers v1 #170] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
80. Tony and Sharon talk over Steve's mysteriously withered body. [Captain America v5 #26] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
81. Past!Steve doesn't think much of Tony, but Tony can't stand to hurt him. [Avengers/Invaders #1] [Scan 1 Scan 2]
82. Carol knows what having Steve back would mean for Tony... [Avengers/Invaders #1] [Scan]
83. Tony is visibly pained when told he might as well have killed Cap. [Mighty Avengers #8] [Scan]
84. Tony makes decisions for Steve while they play ping pong. [Ultimate Wolverine vs. Hulk #4] [Scan]
85. Steve jumps off the top of the Mansion to save everyone; Iron Man catches him. [Avengers v1 #170] [Scan]
86. Brain-deleted Tony wants to apologize to Steve (who he may not remember is dead) for leaving Pepper behind. [Invincible Iron Man (v5?) #17] [Scan]
87. Jarvis brings Tony's armor (presumably) and gives it to Steve saying that Tony will be nearby and won't Steve be a good man and help him out. [Siege #2] [Scan]
88. Steve comes to help Tony wake up out of his coma. [Invincible Iron Man (v5?) #21] [Scan]

NOTE: The list (numbers 1 to 66) was reposted on March 23, 2009, but we are continuing to maintain this as the up to date version.

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Please Note (June 18, 2010): This version of the Slashy Moments List is no longer being updated. The list has been organized into chronological order by universe and reposted. That is the version that is being updated. You can find it here: http://community.livejournal.com/cap_ironman/539696.html